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My Due Date: June 24, 2013I have given birth!
Age: 38 years old
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By nesssicle » Posted Jan. 11, 2013 2:02pm - 197 views - 1 comment
Ugh my mom has really put me over the edge this time. I asked her if she would like to come with to my anatomy scan at the end of the month in case my husband gets his new job and will be unable to come. She starts getting all upset with me saying WHY WOULD YOU GET THAT DONE? WHY ARE YOU LETTING THEM DO THAT? in such a judgmental tone! ..like im a monster or something!
This really made me upset so i told her forget it and stormed out of her house. She came after me saying she was sorry and she didn't mean to make me upset...WHATEVER. she then proceeded to say she would come with. I told her FORGET IT! I TRIED TO SHARE SOMETHING NICE WITH YOU AND YOU MAKE IT OUT TO BE A HORRIBLE THING, I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO ANYMORE....
and i left.
She is so offended by dr's appointments. Im sorry that we were born in italy and you decided you didnt want any ultrasounds or anything. For crying out loud! Ive had two ultrasounds already only because they thought there was an issue in the beginning. She freaked out about that. We didnt do any genetic testing because we have no history of any type of disorders and that was a decision we made of what we thought was best for us and our baby. I dont need my mom judging me because im getting one stinkin ultrasound so they can make sure everything is forming correctly! I cannot believe she'd make it out to be some horrific thing.
I know alot of people may think im being over sensitive, but im really not. My mother has had this horrible habit forever, and she seems to think its everyone elses issue, not hers.
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MOTHERS!
By nesssicle » Posted Jan. 11, 2013 2:02pm - 197 views - 1 comment
Ugh my mom has really put me over the edge this time. I asked her if she would like to come with to my anatomy scan at the end of the month in case my husband gets his new job and will be unable to come. She starts getting all upset with me saying WHY WOULD YOU GET THAT DONE? WHY ARE YOU LETTING THEM DO THAT? in such a judgmental tone! ..like im a monster or something!
This really made me upset so i told her forget it and stormed out of her house. She came after me saying she was sorry and she didn't mean to make me upset...WHATEVER. she then proceeded to say she would come with. I told her FORGET IT! I TRIED TO SHARE SOMETHING NICE WITH YOU AND YOU MAKE IT OUT TO BE A HORRIBLE THING, I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO ANYMORE....
and i left.
She is so offended by dr's appointments. Im sorry that we were born in italy and you decided you didnt want any ultrasounds or anything. For crying out loud! Ive had two ultrasounds already only because they thought there was an issue in the beginning. She freaked out about that. We didnt do any genetic testing because we have no history of any type of disorders and that was a decision we made of what we thought was best for us and our baby. I dont need my mom judging me because im getting one stinkin ultrasound so they can make sure everything is forming correctly! I cannot believe she'd make it out to be some horrific thing.
I know alot of people may think im being over sensitive, but im really not. My mother has had this horrible habit forever, and she seems to think its everyone elses issue, not hers.
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 | Comment from Quartz3 » Posted Jan. 12, 2013 8:20am I know how you feel.... my Mom makes me crazy as well. All the TIME! It's like she doesn't even think of anybody other than herself. At some point I told her I had a feeling my baby was a boy, and she reacted in such a DISAPPOINTED way. "Oh. Well, you don't know that for sure.... It could still be a girl." And for New Year's, she bought an ESPRESSO and AMARETTO cake!!!! Obviously these are small things, not as bad as this story of yours, but at least now you know you're not alone out there! ;) |
