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I might as well get the idea of HIM being around for the baby out of my head!
By ambewilson » Posted Mar. 20, 2013 2:27pm - 270 views - 3 comments

So for the past couple days I've been trying to text Jamie and make him rationalize about this whole thing. Sure, I'll never trust him and he'll always be a grimey little skeeze for leaving me at 5 1/2 months pregnant for another girl but, I'm fed up with his excuses on why he can't parent our son. I"m sick of his excuses for missing out on parenting and cpr classes on his claims that i'm "crazy" but he's just a selfish little prick. I'm going to try to keep including him in these classes but I'm not counting on him being there. His famliy isn't much better bc they are glad it's over bc they are a bunch of racists. I might as well cut the loss now so my son doesn't have to suffer through this crap!

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	Comment from preggo6506 » Posted Mar. 27, 2013 10:54am I was a single mother for my first daughter bc the father didnt want much to do with her. It's not as bad as you think. It does make it a little harder to work and find a babysitter but a lot of the times you have those problems even being with the father. Let him walk, as the other two said. The more you try to involve him, the farther he will walk away. I learned that the hard way. When I finally let go, it took awhile, but he came back, realizing he was an idiot and he was ready to grow up. And he did. We now have our third child on the way and hes a great man and father. Of course, it doesnt always work out that way, but SOMEONE will come along that will treat you and your son the way you deserve.
	Comment from GemGem » Posted Mar. 20, 2013 5:52pm I agree with TOTALLY with Emma78. Its your ex thats going to miss out. maybe try and "enjoy" your pregnancy without this waste of space, he is not worth the stress. You have bigger and better things to think about. Why involve him if he doesn't want to be involved? You probably have had a lucky escape and so has your baby boy. and if he wants to know later on down the line you can always tell him he had his chance... i wish you all the best. <hugs>
	Comment from Emma78 » Posted Mar. 20, 2013 2:42pm I don't know your whole situation but if hr doesn't want to be apart of your Childs life I would let him walk away. As scary and hard being a single mom is it is easier then trying to share custody sometimes. I watch so many friends and family fighting over their kids. My bf son dad wleft when their son was 3 months old. He shows up ever few years decides he wants to be a dad then disappears after a few months. Its do painful for her son that his dad never stays. She is married now to an amazing man who treats her son like a father should. If he doesn't want to be there for his kid I'm sure you can find a much better father who would love to be there for him.