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My Due Date: March 14, 2016
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Age: 35 years old
Location: Madison, United States

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1 Week until we find out the gender!!
By lala_0412 » Posted Oct. 19, 2015 10:00am - 307 views - 5 comments

It's Monday and I am now only a week away from finding out what our youngest baby's gender is. My emotions are all over the place right now. I have read every blog, symptom spotting every chance I get to predict the gender of this baby. I told my doctor I am driving myself crazy trying to figure out. I knew what each one of my other kids were before they were born. My oldest is a girl and I just knew. With my second I knew he was a boy. I was so sure I didn't even want to know the gender at my ultrasound and low and behold he was a healthy baby boy. With my third, I felt he was a boy but wanted another girl so I would tell everyone he was going to be a girl. Deep down inside, I knew that was a little boy in there. I was upset for 2 weeks after my ultrasound. Mothers intuition is usually right. I got over it and the minute he was born I couldn't see my life without him. Now, with this baby, I have not a fricken clue! And maybe that's why it's driving me insane. I REALLY want another girl. I try to remind myself that I should just be blessed and be thankful that I have made it this far and have 3 amazing children already but it's hard. Maybe it's because I know this will be our last child. And I know the minute this baby is born I will love him/her just as much as I love my other children. My 2 oldest are from a previous relationship and my youngest is with my spouse now. I know my boyfriend would love to have one of each of his own as well. Not that he doesn't love my children, but you get it. He thinks it's a boy so that helps to keep me level headed if it does turn out to be a boy. I know I will be upset again and I think that's so childish of me. I don't think this week can go any faster. I am trying to keep myself as occupied as possible. I also picked out the name Kyree if it a boy and my boyfriend likes it too. I think if it is a boy that will help out a bit with the disappointment. I really like that name. My youngest is named after LeBron James and Kyree is his team mate so I think that would work out great. Regardless of gender I will be happy to have a healthy baby. It may take me a little bit to get over the shock but like I said before I am just blessed to be able to create such masterpieces. Just being a little selfish.

Comments for this Journal Entry

Comment from pbc910 » Posted Oct. 20, 2015 12:16pm
The idea of twins was tough to deal with in the beginning but you are so right! After we found out we were having a girl and boy we just knew that it was all meant to be. Now my husband will have 3 sons and 3 daughters!

Comment from Amanda_McDaniel » Posted Oct. 19, 2015 6:09pm
We didn't find out the gender with our first because I wanted a boy so badly that I knew I'd be disappointed if it was a girl and, Lordy, that made me feel guilty. But I knew, once I saw him/her, it wouldn't matter. Well I did get my boy and now I'm absolutely tickled to get my girl. Be sure to keep us posted on your results! Fingers crossed you get what you want!

Comment from lala_0412 » Posted Oct. 19, 2015 2:55pm
Thanks ladies!

PBC10 that is a blessing that you are having one of each. I'm glad to know I'm not alone and it is okay to prefer one over the other. Sometimes I think how horrible it is that I prefer one and not just a healthy baby.

Comment from pbc910 » Posted Oct. 19, 2015 1:48pm
Totally understand! I wanted these babies more than anything but I think I would have still be disappointed if they were two boys because I wanted a girl so bad. Of course, you're always appreciative and love the kid(s) no matter what! I know they are silly but all the old wives' tales I did to predict gender were correct and all the other little tests and such ended up being right too.

Comment from MalPal85 » Posted Oct. 19, 2015 10:38am
Hope the week goes fast for you! I couldn't wait to find out either!


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