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Asked by LyssaBugg

Q: I am afraid to tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant.

I'm pregnant. Unplanned. 22 years old, my boyfriend is 23. I'm pretty early, I was on the pill when I got pregnant, I felt it right away. I just knew. It was a "sensation." When I was still just scared I tried to feel out how my boyfriend would feel. I know he wants kids one day, but financially he DOES NOT right now. I don't know how to tell him. I don't even know if I'm keeping it yet. I only found out for sure today, I wouldn't let myself decide this soon either way.

This question was asked Oct. 18, 2012 11:15pm
Category: Newly Pregnant

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Answered by nwelch - Oct. 20, 2012 2:51pm
Did you tell him the news yet??? How did it go???

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Answered by LyssaBugg - Oct. 19, 2012 3:03pm
Yeah, I'm definitely telling him either way, I want him to be part of the decision. I didn't end up doing it last night because he got home really late and was in a really bad mood over work. We have a date night tonight so I'll tell him then. I'll let you know how that goes.

Thanks

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Answered by LyssaBugg - Oct. 19, 2012 1:52am
Okay I will- we've been together 4 months- not that long. But it's been a good 4 months. I'll let you know how it goes.

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Answered by kaylia2oo5 - Oct. 19, 2012 10:50am
He has the right to know either way I think. Maybe he'll help make the decision of what to do easier- you never know! Talk it over with him, you may feel 100% better. Remember it takes two to make a baby, not just one! Best of luck :)

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Answered by -Lee-B - Oct. 18, 2012 11:22pm
I would tell him sooner than later. If you hold off then it looksl ike you are purposely hiding something. Just tell him you are late. Go buy a pregnancy test and test with him. See the results. The pill alone is not 100% pregnancy proof. It's just a risk that was taken and while few get pregnant on the pill you guys did. He will likely be upset, possibly direct it at you for awhile...but in the end he needs to know.

You may be surprised at his response...it wouldn't be the first man that ended up happy when it wasn't planned. Even if he freaks out at first he may adjust to the idea should you keep the baby. Maybe avoid too much conversation when you first tell him...let it sink in.

Good luck!!

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Answered by jeniferolivia - Jun. 3, 2016 12:24pm
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Answered by Sunshine5191 - Oct. 25, 2012 6:06pm
I'm glad you told him. Hope everything works out for you!

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Answered by LyssaBugg - Oct. 18, 2012 11:25pm
I only got the positive result a few minutes ago.

I was on a stacked pill so I had close to two full months before my period would be due- I just knew. I'll tell him tonight.

If I do keep it, my boss will be angry. I coach gymnastics (very physical) and I was JUST hired to replace another pregnant coach (she's not fired, but she will maternity leave), and they needed another coach.

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Answered by maggie22 - Oct. 19, 2012 10:40am
Just tell him the truth.. thats all you can do..

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Answered by LyssaBugg - Oct. 20, 2012 10:37pm
I told him last night, he's still kind of in shock. We haven't really talked about it.

He's having dinner with his best friend tonight, then we're meeting up. We'll probably talk more about it tonight or tomorrow. It's kind of nice not talking about it yet, it gives me time to sort of think things through and think how I feel before we come together to talk about it. But at the same time I don't want to think and decide without him since I don't want to get heart set either way.

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