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Asked by GemGem

Q: Breast feeding and family

Im planning on breast feeding my baby when she arrives but just wondered what to do if family are present, I wouldn't want to get my bob out and feed her in front of My OH grandad, that would be embarrassing for everyone. I never breast fed with my first so I don't know what to expect. I know there will be a lot of visitors the first couple of weeks she is born. Will people get offended if i left them to go breastfeed in private? I don't really want to use a pump the first few weeks until im comfortable and have it completely sussed (If i can)

This question was asked May. 20, 2013 7:49pm
Category: Postpartum

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Answered by ProudMommyS05 - May. 30, 2013 7:06am
Do whatever makes you the most comfortable. I highly doubt anyone would get offended if you needed to slip away awhile to feed baby. I truly believe whatever makes you feel the most comfortable is best. I have a sis in law that leaves the room to nurse baby and I have a sis in law who does it in front of everyone no cover or nothing. I personally stay in the same room but I cover up when there are any males present other than my hubby.

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Answered by meghanraby - May. 22, 2013 1:13am
Just had a family thing on the weekend and I just slipped the nipple in without anybody seeing. Once her mouth was around it nobody can see what is private anyways. Nobody cared and I didn't miss out on anything.

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Answered by lucyblue - May. 21, 2013 9:33pm
Breasts are not sexual organs in any way. They are lumps of tissue and fat under a nipple and their sole purpose is to feed babies. It is sad that they are so sexualized by our society. I am planning on breastfeeding and I personally am going to do it whenever and where ever I please. Nobody should feel embarrassed or offended by watching a baby eat. It's ridiculous what our society has done to the act of breastfeeding. To me it is no different then watching a baby drink from a bottle. But if you feel uncomfortable breastfeeding in front of people just cover up with a blanket or nursing cover. Or if you want to excuse yourself to a different room to bf in private, nobody will be offended! Why on earth would they be? Your baby needs to eat!! If someone is offended because you are going to feed your child, whether that be in front of them or not, it's THEIR problem, not yours. Don't worry about what other people think. Just do what you feel comfortable with! :)

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Answered by TrulyBlessed101 - May. 21, 2013 2:20pm
I breastfed with my first son, and it was never an issue. Most of the time, I would just hold my baby and say "Are you hungry? I think its time for you to eat", and my Dad and most of the other people in the room (especially the Men) couldn't get to the door fast enough to excuse themselves from the room. It was pretty funny actually. In the beginning, if this is your first time breastfeeding, you will probably need some support. I had to call the lactation consultant to my room several times to help with latching. Nurses and other hospital staff were in and out of the room all of the time when my boobs were out. I also found that he nursed better with skin to skin contact, so it was really hard for me to cover up. People will probably leave the room when you say the phrase above. If not, you can just politely ask them to wait outside. Or, if you are uncomfortable asking, have your husband ask them for you. They will totally understand.

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Answered by ElaLoub - May. 20, 2013 10:21pm
I didn't know how I was going to handle it, but it comes naturally in different situations - sometimes I excuse myself and other times I just throw a blanket over. Don't worry about it now - you'll figure it out when you get there :D

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Answered by maggie22 - May. 20, 2013 9:48pm
I have always gone to my room when breast feeding. No one has ever taken offence.. I feel more comfortable and so does my guest. I wouldnt worry just do what is best for you.

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Answered by redrouge - May. 20, 2013 8:09pm
no people will def understand..what i found was i used to say baby is hungry people knoew that was their q to go or else i would put a blanket over the baby whilst feeding and if u dont want to do that just explain and leave the room.some people like ure girlfriend sister ect you wont mind popping your boob out.you will know ureself who u will feel comfortable around..but they will understand..best of luck...

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