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30 weeks and Hear me Roar!
By Sianny » Posted Oct. 27, 2014 8:47am - 417 views - 6 comments

Mini rant but I'm still cheerful :) see, I'm smiling!

The last few days have been cruddy to say the least and testing my self restraint from handing out flying headbutts like halloween candy.
First I have to defend my choices to a woman I don't even know and next I have to listen to a midwife say she can't help because her book says 'no'.

The sister of one of my hubbies friends (thats how obscure this woman is) has been making nasty comments to me since September when I tag hubby in something on Facebook. It started on his birthday when not only did she she copy my sentimental status to him where I said he was a loving husband and a wonderful father but she added in there 'breadwinner' as a third statement. I actually talked about this in a previous journal entry as I thought it was all in my head but no, it turns out she was making a comment about the fact I am a stay at home mother and don't earn my own money. Then came her remark about my anniversary gift, 4 years is fruit and flowers according to wiki so I made hubby a fruity sweet bouquet with raspberry beer but to her this was offensive as the anniversary gift list didn't include a more manly electronics option so hubby didn't have to suffer.
I didn't think my creation was that bad lol!
Then yesterday she had a go at me saying that because I had brought pink clothes for baby Thea that I was stereotyping her before she had a chance to become an individual.
WHAT.THE.FUDGE?
I'm no expert but I am pretty sure the colour of her baby grow is not going to have any connection to who she will grow to be not to mention I don't think she'll even know she's wearing clothes let alone what colour they are.
Needless to say I retaliated and so did a fair few other people but hubby publicly blamed my hormones for the outburst, she didn't really do anything wrong and declared she was entitled to her opinions. Thanks for the support... I agree she can have her opinions but not the right to force feed them to other people, especially those she doesn't know.

Now I am sure I have anemia again, I had it with my son and I feel just like I did then. I can't breath, my heart races if I attempt the stairs and I'm as white as a sheet. I called the midwife in the hopes that she could either give me the iron supplement prescription or send me for a new batch of bloods but no... Because my bloods from 26wks say my levels were hb110 and the cut off is hb110 then her 'book' says I don't need extra iron but they will take my blood again at 33wks. Oh but she agrees, it does sound like I am anemic again and to just keep taking my prenatal vits. Helpful...thanks...
I would buy them myself but I don't have any money till payday on Friday so until then I have to suffer.
Right now the world and I are not getting along. Thank the stars I have you ladies to talk to, not sure if I would have made it this far without going nuts if it wasn't for you lot x

anywhooooooooooooo

How far along? 30 glorious weeks and 3 days Yay!!
Total weight gain: Just over a stone
Sleep: Not enough
Best moment this week: Reaching 30eks
Movement: Lots
Food cravings: Chicken tikka masala and rice
Gender: Pink wearing girl
Symptoms: Anemia
Happy or moody most of the time: Irritable

Comments for this Journal Entry

	Comment from Sianny » Posted Oct. 27, 2014 12:15pm Thank you hun x unfortunately she's not actually on my friends list, the only way she can see or partially communicate with me is if I tag hubby in what i write or he tags me. I've spoken to her brother and he's clueless to what she's playing at and hubby won't delete her because he doesn't think it's a big deal, I could block her from seeing anything about me but that doesn't stop her doing it on hubbies account basically behind my back so that all those who are my friends can see but I can't. It's a Facebook flaw. I've just stopped tagging hubby and untagged myself from his stuff as well as delete all her previous comments which blocks her from commenting again. I'm on the broccoli diet until i get in with the dr, hopefully soon.
	Comment from aprilluvsmoz » Posted Oct. 27, 2014 11:38am She sounds like she needs to get a life. I remember her from your previous post and to me she seems so consumed by whats going on in your life hers is probably passing her by. I dont understand the need for her to always comment and to me rather then feel like you have to defend your self or your decisions to anyone I would remove her and maybe have a talk with your husband and his friend about it. You should be able to be as mushy and gushy as you want to your hubby and for what its worth I like your gift it shows thought and effort. As far as the anemia I am sure that its taking a toll on your body, if she wont listen try to look for other ways to try and supplement the iron through foods hopefully that will bring you some sort of relief. Hope you feel better congratulations to 30 weeks !
	Comment from Sianny » Posted Oct. 27, 2014 10:41am She does seem very very odd to me. I haven't blocked her on Facebook so that she can see the return comments and that I can continue to annoy her with my clearly outrageous ideas on child raising. She doesn't even have children...!
	Comment from dakotagurrl » Posted Oct. 27, 2014 10:29am WoW! I found the pink clothes comment offensive, and it wasnt even directed at me. I'd say about 75% of Braelyn's clothes are pink and I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Does she want u to dress Thea in plain white with no designs until she becomes an "individual"? What a weirdo! She sounds jealous and unhappy with her own life. I'd keep posting, it obviously irritates her...probably more than it does u! ;))
	Comment from Sianny » Posted Oct. 27, 2014 9:50am Mmmm SpaTone apple flavoured supplement, they try to disguise the taste with apple water. Better then the pills though. Glad you got an apology but slightly scary moment. Can't wait to see little ones pictures x x x
	Comment from snolie14 » Posted Oct. 27, 2014 8:56am She sounds like a bi#@* to me! F her! Well, figuritivly I mean lol Hope you get some iron soon, I take 650 mg a day, kicking my butt tho! I get to see my little man tomorrow, so excited! I got several apologies yesterday, late in the day, but none the less, he gave me several. Yesterday morning, before work was awful, I've never experienced his wrath before, and there wasn't any need for it, other than I was hereâ?¦ anywaysâ?¦ feel better hun! XO