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Making love while pregnant..
By Kate0406 » Posted Sep. 14, 2015 10:40am - 361 views - 6 comments

I'm sure some have a great love life while pregnant
Not this chick. First off, I have no desire. Second off, when I do I find it frustrating and awkward. I'm bigger than I usually am. I have this bump that keeps me from getting close, and anything jaring makes my legitments hurt. I feel awful for my husband because seriously it has been weeks. I'm glad he isn't much of a complainer but I feel like I keep distant so nothing even goes there. I figure it will only get worse because I'm going to get bigger and bigger. My husband thinks its because I don't feel sexy. It has nothing with that. He makes me feel sexy so regardless if that is how I felt it wouldn't stop me. No its just more frustrating then its worth so I don't even try anymore. Anyone have problems like that or am I just one of the odd ones out there.

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	Comment from CrystalB88 » Posted Sep. 28, 2015 3:35pm It's hard for me, also... but I don't feel sexy on top of it so that definitely doesn't help. My bump just makes me feel big and awkward and uncomfortable in most positions... but even if it's hard for me, I still enjoy the act itself and, despite feeling awkward, I actually feel better about myself afterwards because, although I may not find myself attractive, my hubby still wanting me and finding me attractive still boosts my ego lol.
	Comment from lala_0412 » Posted Sep. 14, 2015 1:19pm I felt the same way until my bf referenced us to Kortney and Scott. I do not want my bf to feel like we only have sex to have kids. I felt my sex drive was gone but started ready articles on how to spice up your love life while pregnant and they have been working! TMI but we actually met at home for lunch today and DTD while the house was kidless, and that was after some sexting. Our men should not feel neglected during this time. I know it's hard but find ways to make it enjoyable. Maybe some kisses and foreplay before. That always helps me.
	Comment from mcorinnes » Posted Sep. 14, 2015 12:14pm I feel the same way hun. It sux, but it is just part of pregnancy... A part that will go away eventually THANK THE LORD!!!
	Comment from Kate0406 » Posted Sep. 14, 2015 11:56am Well I'm glad I'm not the only one. I also want to feel clean all the time.. Which is the opposite on how I feel after doing anything. It was like this with my son Jack too. My first born I didn't have a problem until I got too big. Just glad I have a understanding partner.
	Comment from ericalee » Posted Sep. 14, 2015 11:29am In the beginning of my pregnancy with my daughter I was super in the mood, but had an SCH so was on strict pelvic restrictions for 12 weeks, which was really hard. Then I started getting bigger and things were awkward, plus my husband started noticing how I Felt "softer" down there... which made me feel weird. At the very end I felt like a beached whale.. It was not so awesome.. This time around I haven't had an U/S yet to know everything is ok, but I'm doing progesterone up the vag, which instantly makes everything down there not as fun.
	Comment from pbc910 » Posted Sep. 14, 2015 11:24am I feel the same...too much problem than it's worth. It's probably been over 2 months for us, the longest we've probably gone. It just isn't as fun when your pelvis hurts or things are sore.