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Nearlly everyone smokes a bit of weed. Maybe its his way of having fun before the bub comes im sure he wouldnt do it once its here

Goodluck

He used to smoke then he gave up... he only started again once I found out I was pregnant, which is when he strarted working more, very small amounts but of course it has gotten alot worse. Of course I have spoken to him about it!!
And I am most definatly not "allowing it to happen" He says its his way of staying home and relaxing rather than going out and drinking with his friends its easier if they come over for an hour or two then go. I feel there is only so many times I can say something about it! But its just not worth leaving one another over, spesh with a baby on the way! Tough one. but thankyou

I hate to say this, but you probably already knew this about him before you decided to have a baby with him. I personally do not think it's okay for him to spend two hours a night smoking weed (and it definitely shouldn't be okay once your baby comes). That being said, you're the one who is not communicating with him about it. It sounds like you are just allowing it to happen. You are starting a family together, so some lifestyle changes are to be expected. I don't think it's asking to much for him to spend more time with you. What are your expectations of him once the baby comes? Will you be the ONLY one taking care of the baby while he hangs out with friends and smokes pot all evening long? It sounds like you need to have a heart-to-heart with him and really lay out your needs and expectations of him. If nothing changes, that will tell you a lot. I hope it gets better. Good luck!

Oh and the smell of weed literally makes me throw up I cant stand it, so he says he tried not to come near me until he has a shower. so i just go to bed and miss out on cuddles and everything :(