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Q: Purple crying? Anyone else going through this?

My baby is 4 days old and since we've been home she literally cries and eats. That's it. She sleeps maybe 3hrs total in a 24hr period. I was BF until today. I have decided to give up because I'm too drained as well my breasts are bleeding when she feeds.

I'm at a loss with the constant crying. Nothing sooths her. I've read up and to me this sounds like purple crying stage. Anyone know how long it will last? I need to know that things will get better. I'm feeling depressed and like I just can't keep up with this. I've slept maybe 8hrs in the last 6 days as 2 days before she was born I had contractions at home that kept me from sleeping.

Just looking to see I'm not alone I guess....

This question was asked Oct. 6, 2012 6:11am
Category: Postpartum

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Answered by a member - Oct. 6, 2012 12:56pm
i didnt like the idea of giving him formula because i had been breastfeeding only, but i DID like the idea of sleeping while my mom fed the baby. after i woke up from my nap the difference was amazing!! i was shocked. he was sitting in his little chair, HAPPY! not crying! ever since then i gave him similac sensitive and he was such a happy baby. i dont know if it was an allergy to my milk or an allergy to lactose in general, but i knew this worked and i never did switch back. This may not be the problem with your baby but i thought it might help to hear my story.

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Answered by a member - Oct. 6, 2012 12:44pm
I went through purple crying with all 3 of my kids. with my first 2 babies it started around 2 months old to 6 months. they would start crying around 6pm and not stop until 10pm or so. there was nothing i could do at the time and i know how you feel... so helpless and frustrated, but just know that its not something you are doing. I read about a study that found all breast fed animals go through the purple phase which is interesting and comforting in a way.

With my 3rd baby, the crying started right away, as soon as we were home from the hospital. the only time he didnt cry was when he was sleeping (which wasnt often) even when he was nursing he would cry between breaths. it was heartbreaking. I summed it up to the same thing, only it started much earlier then my other 2 kids, and it was ALL day rather then in the evenings. i went to my mothers when the baby was about 3 months old, to get some help and she had bought a case of Similac Sensitive formula,,..cont.

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Answered by klara2222 - Oct. 6, 2012 12:00pm
I don't have any experience with purple crying, but I just wanted to say, "Hang in there!" Is there any way your hubby or a family member or close friend could take the baby out of the house for 3h or something just so you can get some rest? Obviously it's important that baby stay near you most of the time, but sleep deprivation is horrible and won't help you to get through this. With a bit more sleep, things often seem more manageable. *Hugs* and good luck!

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Answered by gemma1991 - Oct. 6, 2012 6:53am
heya hun my lg was the same i braguht her home aftrer 4 days and all she did was cry even thought i feed her chqanged ehr cuddled her gave ehr abit of boiled cooled water checked for colic

have u tried to see if she got colic try giving her abit of infalcol see if she struggling to bring up wind

in the end thought i used to leave my lg to cry for abit after about 5-10 min she settled and no dont think she was to younge if she had everythink she just being funny and porb so used to getting picked up and soothed when she put down she prob think hold on a minuit and start crying but know one thing it will get better

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