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Q: Should I stay, or should I go?

Last night my fiance and I got into a really horrible fight, that ended up getting physical on both our parts. The fight started because I wouldn't tell him in great detail about my day. (I am on bed rest, so my explanation consisted mostly of, I layed on the couch, I layed in bed, and I watched cartoons.) He got very angry and started accusing me of cheating on him, and all sorts of other horrible things. When I started getting very worked up, I told him to leave. That I couldn't take the stress. He then pounced on me, and not only hit me multiple times, face, abdomen, back, sides, but resorted to choking me when I fought back. He choked me into unconsciousness. When I came to, he was sitting on my belly, holding me down and screaming at me. This was the worse he has ever been in a fight, he has thrown me around before, but never made me fear for my life like this. I don't want my kids to have no dad, so I don't know, should I stay or should I go?

This question was asked Jan. 25, 2013 8:48pm
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by GemGem - Jan. 25, 2013 9:00pm
You dont want your children to be without Dad but you would prefer this violent man being around them? he is a risk to others so he could potentially cause harm to your children, as he doesnt seem to think twice about hitting a woman. What he is doing is TOTALLY unacceptable. To me he sounds like a bully who hits women. I was in this situation with my first pregnancy and it went on until my son was born, only then i had the strength to leave him. You should go to the police. Thats one of the mistakes I made then as now 6 years on my Ex is taking me to court for unsupervised contact, and i have no evidence of his battery. Please talk to someone a family member, friend, police anyone. This should NOT be happening!

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