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Husband and I had our first child together when I was 20. I was so dead set then I wasn't having anymore kids. Years down the road I turned 26. Lots of my friends were having babies and our son kept saying how he wishes he had a brother or sister. I started to consider it. I figured I didn't want to have kids after 30 for sure. I got off the pill. Hubs and I decided if it doesn't happen by the time I hit 30 then we stop trying and it wasn't ment to be. I'm 27 and due in a week with our 2nd. My son is 7yrs old and is beyond excited to have a baby sister on the way. I am glad though I'm not like most women and have them so close in age. No double diaper duty and I had a lot of time to spend with him and bond. Now all of us get to bond with the new baby together.

Hubby and I pretty well have decided we are having a second child. Just a matter of when! Probably start trying when my daughter is around 2 :) I did some reading up on it and most only children say they wish they had a sibling and therefore will never have just one child themselves. That sealed the deal for me!

Any only children that i have met are selfish and lack proper social skills, if you choose to have one child you need to make an effort your child does not turn out this way. I think a silbing is the greatest gift parents can give you..

mine are the opposite. they are friends at times i guess, but fight the majority of the time. its very nice and peaceful when one of them is away with a friend.

Two kids are nice, cuz they entertain each other instead of the one following you around because they are bored. My two have been a blessing to me and to each other. I have a girl and a boy but they are still best friends and look out for each other.