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Q: Breastfeeding advice

I tried breastfeeding with all my children and failed. All my children had severe feeding issues and never even ate baby food. My first son did but gagged and threw up at every feeding. My twins eventually ended up on feeding tubes and they all had to be in therapy. I really want to try breastfeeding the baby but I'm scared I'm going to fail again and my husband doesn't even want me to try. I know that I will always feel bad if I don't at least give it a shot although I'm scared I'm going to have the same issues with him as the other boys. I also had issues with supply even though I tried everything to help, even went on herbal meds. Pumping was even a nightmare because I would spend 30 mins and only get 1-2ozs. I'm also concerned about having the time to nurse when I have 3 other small children and a ton of stuff to do. If there's any momma's out there that have been through something similar or can offer any advice I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks ladies!

This question was asked Aug. 6, 2014 11:40am
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Answered by Mommatoboys - Aug. 7, 2014 9:24pm

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Answered by Emmakenny12 - Aug. 7, 2014 9:20pm

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Answered by Mommatoboys - Aug. 6, 2014 6:32pm

Thank you! So happy you are having a much easier time! One of my twins had to have their tongue clipped although none of them had a problem latching on. Their problem was that they were never hungry. Even when I switched to formula they only drank 5-8 ozs a day. They were later diagnosed with a sensory processing disorder and have improved greatly. I really hope this new little guy has a better appetite!

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Answered by jennavee - Aug. 6, 2014 2:29pm

I struggled with my first son. I had low supply, he spit up all the time, he refused to latch, and the pedi finally said it looked like he had a slight tongue-tie.
This time, my approach has been any time baby is awake I try to nurse him. We did this for the first 6 weeks. I also vowed to myself that at the first sign of troubles I would contact my midwife and a lactation consultant. I tried to stop thinking about all the things that could go wrong again, and just nursed my baby any time he was awake. As a results, I have an excellent supply and we have had no real problems!
I hope you have an easier time breastfeeding this time! If you need resources I definitely recommend www.kellymom.com and the Le Leche League forums at http://forums.llli.org/index.php They are both filled with answers to any questions you might have!

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Answered by Mommatoboys - Aug. 6, 2014 1:46pm

Thank you so much for sharing your story and I wish you great success in your attemp with your new baby!

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Answered by Sianny - Aug. 6, 2014 1:32pm

I struggled with my son, he was willing but so vicious with his latch on, he shook his head really quickly theb launched at me that he never latched properly no matter how hard myself and my healthvisitor tried. I was in pain, frustrated and with that my supply deminished greatly.
I felt bad for not being able to continue past 6 weeks but I was happy to have fed him for as long as I could. Even with constant pumping my milk dried up in less then 48hrs.
I am going to happily try again with this baby but I won't kick myself for going back to formula if it starts to upset me.
Never blame yourself for trying and not being successful because you tried. Theres no harm in trying.
some ladies say some is better then none. Also never feel guilty for not trying.
How you feed your baby is only a choice you can make and never let anyone make you feel bad should you decide not to try.

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