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Q: Hubby and I fighting and now everything doesn't seem right. Please help!!

My husband was previously married and had a child who he was around for 3 days because his wife kicked him out. Him and I are expecting our first child. He hasn't seen his other child and is not close. He has said before he doesn't feel like a father because he is not around and is not allowed to act like a father the few times he has gone to visit his child that lives out of state. Since our due date is getting closer we have been talking and now all of a sudden he says that he loves his son and our daughter the same. When before he said he loves him but only because he is his son since there is no relationship. I am upset because he will be around our daughter more and get to experience everything with our daughter so wouldnt the love and the bond be stronger? He said it would be the same. I am really worried because I don't want my daughter to have to compete for her dad to love her. He always compares everything to that situation with us and my pregnancy and the baby. am i wrong?

This question was asked May. 20, 2012 1:08pm
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by a member - May. 20, 2012 2:16pm
You have posted a question like this before(I'm pretty sure I know who this is)...you guys need to go GET SOME HELP! Fighting over how much he will or does love his own children is STUPID! God gave him blessings and you need to except it. He needs to deal with it how ever his body is dealing with it. This is absolutely ridiculous! You guys have children coming into the world..show them how to be mature adults and focus on the things that really matter. Seriously...when I say get some help..I mean it in way of..go get some family counseling. The few questions you have posted have relatively the same with more details..and I think that everything you have asked is to big for CMP people to analyze for you.

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