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Asked by jodiem

Q: Miscarried =[

I should be 4 weeks 5 days pregnant, but last night i had some bleeding and this morning even more and it's basically like a period now. Ive had no pain at all throughout this whole thing.
I went to the docs today and they did a test which confirmed my worst fears - it's gone =[

gutted..

I dont particularly have a question, i just would like to maybe talk to someone who's had this happen to them too and how long afterwards it was that AF reared her ugly head again? / how long until ovulation etc....

a part of me is just freaking out that it'll never happen for me, which i know is silly to think about.

This question was asked May. 11, 2012 12:16pm
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by kiara145 - May. 12, 2012 5:38pm
im so sorry for your loss, i also lost my little bean at 4wks 5days, with it being so early i was told to count my 1st day of bleeding as cd 1 i ovd on my normal cd 18 the next cycle i didnt ov til cd 23 next cycle i got my bfp and im now 12 wks 5days, i have heard ov and af can b a little off after a m/c but i think it differs on how far along u were wen u miscarried, i am pretty sure it will happen for you again :)

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Answered by gppacen - May. 12, 2012 12:00am
This happened to me in October. It was labelled a chemical pregnancy - a pregnancy which wasn't confirmed via ultrasound. They are common unfortunately. Since this loss is early it doesn't take too much time for your body to regulate again and ovulate. My cycle wasn't affected too much. It's an awful feeling. I did get pregnant 2 months later and am now 20 weeks. Hang in there! I am sorry for your loss.

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Answered by Shonda - May. 11, 2012 5:30pm
I had a M/C 3yrs ago and I too was searching everywhere and asking everyone for an explanation. Its tough and scary but you will be alright. Yes for a very long time I thought that I couldn't have kids and something was wrong with me but in 8mons I was getting back to myself not completely over it 'of course not" but I spoke with others that had MCs and also had successful pregnancy afterwards and it made me feel better. statics states that out of 1-1700 women will have at least 1 MC for unknown reasons. What I did was went to my doctor got a check-up from head to toe..blood work, USound, anything you name it...and it was confirm that my body was heallthy enought to support a pregnancy but things just happen sometimes. Just pray and it all will work out just pray. I am 5wks and 1dy and the only person I turn to in support of this pregnancy is GOD.

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Answered by klara2222 - May. 11, 2012 3:13pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have a lot of friends who have had mcs, some as late as 21 weeks. As yours was very, very early on (heck, if you weren't looking for it, you might've written it off to a late period because of stress or something - my AF is irregular, so that would've been me), your body will likely be ready to try again in short order. Don't be down and out - your chances of getting pregnant are supposed to be very good shortly after a miscarriage. Also, I read in another of your posts that you're planning a hen night... maybe once the stress of everything has passed your body will be better able to sustain a pregnancy. Big hugs and hang in there!! <3

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Answered by Candy777 - May. 11, 2012 1:29pm
WOW my grammer and wording is just so off today, I meant I really pray that you will accept what has happened and please do not give up hope... xxx (I know its hard :( )

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Answered by Candy777 - May. 11, 2012 1:25pm
I am so sorry for you loss hun, Its never easy... I would also like to say sorry to the other ladies who lost and loved... I had a stillbirth last year November @ 28 weeks and a chemial December. My DH was devistated and wanted to delay falling pregnant again. After the chemical my period when straight back to normal my ovulation date was out by only 2 days. Feburary we were blessed and I am now just over 12weeks. It is not a easy road and I really pray that you will accept that happens and not give up home. Sometimes things dont happen the way we always want them to. When I had my chemical I said to myself there must be a reason why this happened. Perhaps my fertilized egg was not 100% perfect. If you want to chat on a more personal level please feel free to inbox me. Hope you all have a great weekend.

Candy xxx

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Answered by tinkerbell26 - May. 11, 2012 12:40pm
Oh no i am so so sorry for your loss, i had a missed m/c at 11wks Oct 31st its awful :( i dont think theres anything anyone can say to make you feel better but keep your spirits up as best you can. Myself and my hubbie went away for the wknd to take our minds off it which was nice. Af showed up exactly 4 weeks after the m/c and then i got pregnant the month after im nearly 23 wks. It will happen for you for sure so keep you chin up and again im sorry for your loss xxxxxxxx

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Answered by TigerLilly0930 - May. 11, 2012 12:30pm
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It can be an emotionally draining experience. I had a miscarriage back in December at about 5 weeks pregnant. I had just had it confirmed by my MD via blood test, and was thinking of ways to share w/ my family. Two days after it was confirmed, I began having spotting and cramping. After having an ultrasound and blood test, the MD confirmed that I was miscarrying. I asked the nurses when I could start trying again, and they said as soon as I wanted to. To keep my mind busy, I bought a few good books, started working out again and began tracking my ovulation w/ predictor kits I bought on amazon. Amazingly, I ovulated 5 weeks after my miscarriage, bd and am now 17 1/2 weeks pregnant with our little miracle. I didn't get a period in between miscarrying and finding out I was pregnant again. I have heard, however, that it can take between 4-6 weeks to have a regular period. Hang in there, there is so much hope in the future <3

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