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Asked by faith17

Q: Anybody give birth alone

I was just wondering if any one. Has given birth with out there support system there how did you deal with it , I'm not due yet but I might be alone during the time of my birth and I just wanted some advice on how to deal with being without my partner this is my first baby I can't imagine going in alone :/ .any advice would be great thanks ladies

This question was asked May. 11, 2012 6:23pm
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Answered by Brittany0915 - May. 11, 2012 9:42pm
I have already had 3 children, and i had my mother and husband with me for the births, but i will assure you the nurses are amazing, supportive, and extreamly helpful. if you do go in alone, they will make sure you dont feel alone

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Answered by knicole27 - May. 11, 2012 9:25pm
My husband is in Korea for a year (in the army) and while he IS going to be here for a month around the due date there is still that chance that my lil man maybe too early or too late for my husband to be here. I also just moved when I was 15 weeks from WA where I am from and where my family is to CO.. where I know really seriously ...no one. So... I have decided to hire a doula. It was just really important for me to have the support I need since this is my first baby and I am so far from home and ..well everyone of my family members and friends. I would look into hiring a doula. Depending on where you live they CAN be spendy but... a lot of them will take a payment plan OR you can find a doula that is working on a certification *if your comfortable* One gal on here is doing so without having to pay for her services. Its something to think about and look into. :)

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Answered by a member - May. 11, 2012 6:32pm
I'm worried about the same thing. I don't have any family here on my partners family. With his job he can't just leave. When our son went to the hospitol it took him almost 6 hours to get there. I know many labors last longer than that but with my first son I was only in labor for 8 1/2 hours and here the second one usually is the same or quicker. Wish I had some advise for you. I know that I got lucky with amazing nurses during my first labor/delivery so hoping for the same this time. Good luck!

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