Answered by estone - Nov. 30, 2012 5:41pm
i agree with thirdtimemamma. They also need time to grieve. After we lost our twins in 2011, I didn't even want to try again, but with time that passed and I realized how badly I wanted a baby. We became pregnant again after trying for 4 months. I think he will come around, he just needs time.
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Answered by thirdtimemamma - Nov. 30, 2012 12:55pm
Yes , it's very common for them , they don't want to see you keep getting hurt and it's hurtful for them to. We suffered a loss the very first time we tried , it was my 1st but my husbands 4th! He was just not ready and I insisted we try again as soon as possible and he said no he was going to wear protection ! It was a rough month or so, we did alot of talking alot of crying, we fought alot and then he overcame it, I think the husbands just need time to, they have different ways of dealing with things like this! I wish you the best of luck and patience! I know it's hard but he will come around :) feel free to message me if you would like!! :)
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