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Category: Miscarriage & Loss

Asked by Maybebaby

Q: I lost my baby, how do I deal with this grief

1 and a half weeks ago we found out our little girl had passed away, we were 33 weeks along and decided to be induced, we gave birth naturally 3 days later, she is perfect, it took us 3 years to conceive her and now we have nothing! How do we deal with this? I feel so empty and alone, we want another baby desperately I'm scared it going to take another 3 years to conceive. I didn't tear during labour and my bleeding has stopped, when is the earliest we can start trying again? Is there anyone out there that has been thru this? Please don't judge us, and no harsh comments, we are hurting enough. Thanks

This question was asked Mar. 25, 2013 1:31pm
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by babygear5 - Sep. 4, 2017 2:50pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I can understand your physical and mental state at this time. This is good opportunity for me to help you to overcome this difficult situation on behalf of my own experience to handle this critical problem in effective way. I also face poor equality problem. You need not to lose hope. There are many effective methods that can change poor to good quality eggs within two and three month with strictly follow on rule and regulation timely. The first and foremost thing I want to say to handle this critical problem with positive attitude. The positive attitude and positive affirmation are effective tools to cure incurable disease in medical history.
You should understand the power of positive attitude and affirmation in effective way. The next important thing is balanced diet. You are poor quality simply signify that your body hormone level is not in balance.

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Answered by FebBabyx - Mar. 27, 2013 1:07pm
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss.. My prayers are with you and your family x

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Answered by aubabylcd - Mar. 25, 2013 8:55pm
Very, very sorry to read this! I also would suggest finding a great therapist to chat with! I went through 2 MC's last summer and I went through some crazy emotions that I never really got to a closing point with. It wasn't until I started seeing a therapist in January that I finally came to terms with it all and that next month we conceived again. My mind was in a different place than it was at the end of the year and I really think that the counseling helped more than anything. It was a nice, third-party point of view that I needed to get me past my grief. And you're right... your baby will be with you forever and when you feel sad just know that she is looking down on you and is sending you happiness. Hoping that you have luck conceiving as soon as you are ready.

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Answered by farmgal72 - Mar. 25, 2013 8:43pm
Just wanted to send you out love and hugs and prayers....All the best for the future and I am sure you will be an amazing Mommy soon.

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Answered by Kynlees_Mommy - Mar. 25, 2013 5:39pm
I am so sorry for your loss.. My SIL went through the same thing about a year and a half ago and it had taken them a few years to conceive as well.. They decided to start trying immediately after she had her first official period.. They conceived about 3-4 months into trying again (bc supposedly it is easier to conceive right after a pregnancy) and she just gave birth to a healthy baby 9 weeks ago. I agree with seeing a therapist to help you work through your feelings.. I think you should start trying again as soon as you and your husband feel the time is right for you both!! Dont listen to everyone elses opinion on how long you should wait and why.. Do what feels right for you! No one knows better than the two of you what is best for your life and situation! I will keep you in my prayers!

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Answered by a member - Mar. 25, 2013 4:24pm
I just read your profile. You don't have to answer my question. I think u are amazingly courageous and I hope u r blessed with a healthy baby...

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Answered by a member - Mar. 25, 2013 4:24pm
I just read your profile. You don't have to answer my question. I think u are amazingly courageous and I hope u r blessed with a healthy baby...

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Answered by a member - Mar. 25, 2013 4:20pm
So sorry for your loss...I lost my twins at 18 weeks and it was awful. The pain eases, but takes time. If you don't mind me asking, how did it happen? I couldn't imagine being that close and then have this happen. Thoughts and prayers to u and your dh...hoping u get a rainbow baby very soon.

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Answered by stephpan - Mar. 25, 2013 2:50pm
I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. I think a counselor or a therapist might help - and time. You should give yourself some time to heal emotionally and physically before you try again. I'll keep you in my prayers!

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Answered by BGGirl - Mar. 25, 2013 1:58pm
I am so sorry for your loss!! I can't imagine the grief you are going through. I would absolutely seek out a counselor/therapist who specializes in grief and loss to help you through this time. Also make sure that you talk about your feelings to the people in your support system such as friends and family so that they can help you as well. This is not something that you can get over quickly or deal with on your own. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH at this most difficult time!!!

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