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I totally know how you feel I just found out I am pregnant with twins and I have three children and I am getting the rudest comments like are you hoping for a tubal pregnancy I will hope with you. I couldn't believe that someone could actually say something like that and another is I am early in my pregnancy and I am getting big fast with the twins and some have said there's no way you could be that bid already its just all fat I am thinking gee thanks a lot but I don't sit here and call you a fat pig that was honestly pretty hurtful I just want to enjoy the fact that were actually having twins why cant those people just be happy for you......It really made upset I was literately crying it sucked that's for sure.

O that's the biggest one wow that I get too lol

i know people are crazy today i got i suppose ull be getting ure tubes tied after these 2.so dumb....

I definitely can relate I'm pregnant with twins also and I hv two children already also don't let it upset you to be honest its doesn't stop it actually gets worse the bigger you get the comments will start to range to omg ! You're huge ! What pregnancy is this wow you're going to hv four children I hope you have help at home ppl.are so dumb at times so I.would sayj just smile and move on Congrats

I'm really sorry that you're dealing with that. This is my first pregnancy, I'm 22, I've been married to DH for over a year and we had been trying for only a few months. I have had multiple people tell me I am too young and even had someone ask me if I was going to keep my baby. OF COURSE!!! I'm really tired of people acting snarkey for no reason at all, and especially when I (and probably you) am noticeably happy about my pregnancy. Hang tough, mama, we can do this! And I find that this is just the perfect opportunity to weed out the people in my life who do not deserve to share this happy moment with DH and I.

oh i agree im so lucky my husband and i are over the moon.im very relaxed so i dont eben think of the extra work load i cant bloody wait.i told my husband once these 2 babies are healthy i can manage anything else..bring it on i say.

Being pregnant with twins is a blessing and it shouldnt have to be something to stress over about when telling people. when they say things like, "Rather you then me", I would reply jokingly, " Well its a good thing your not pregnant ! ". Be proud, dont let them knock ya downnn

Some people do not know how to be polite or that it's ok to just say "congratulations" instead of spouting off like they are obligated to turn it into a whole discussion. I have some rude co-workers and it can be very difficult dealing with them. I feel you!

First off, congratulations on your pregnancy! It's always a blessing! Sometimes, I feel like people are making comments to either joke around or because they don't know what they would do in that situation. I think telling them you'll manage with a smile and walk away is about all you can do. Otherwise, you are going to be angry about the comments and that will stress you and the babies out. Let them have their comments and just prove them wrong when those babies come! Good luck to yo0.