Questions & Answers

I had the d & c done with both my pregnancy losses. I would handle waiting. First time I was 6 wks & no heartbeat. This time I was almost 8 wks. The found a heartbeat, but a week later I just knew something was wrong. Its really only a decision you can make. Regardless how you decide, it's going to be hard. This is the worst feeling ever to lose your child. I opted for the d & c because I just wanted to get it over with & the second time because they were going to test the issue, so maybe we can get some answers as to why this keeps happening.
good luck with your decision. I'm so sorry it's one you have to make

So sorry for your loss. I lost my baby at 6 weeks but didn't find out until I was 12/14 weeks. The baby just wouldn't expel, I would hate for you to go through that for that long. I ended up having a D&C 4 days after finding out. The D&C made no difference to conceiving as I fell the very next month with my now 9yr old son.

Only your head can tell you what to do. My heart goes out to you xx

I had natural miscarriage last July 2013 due to blighted ovum , and i decided to expel it naturally, We discovered at 7 weeks that I had a BO and it took me almost 1 month and 1 week to bleed and expel it naturally.. I had period like bleeding for 1 week before everything expelled. Im sorry for your lost. I knoiw God has a better plans for you. I became pregnant after 1 month I miscarried naturally. Dont lose hope hugs and kisses :*

I miscarried a baby between my Daughter and Son. I was 7 weeks and it happened naturally. It's hard no matter what way you go. you are connected to that baby the moment you find out your pregnant. Keep your head up; I know it's hard trust me. I didn't think I would ever want to get pregnant again after losing my baby, but I found that after the bleeding stopped and my hormone levels went back to normal (took a while for some reason) I started trying again right away because I realized I wanted a baby even more. After three months of trying again we got pregnant again. I was scared out of mind with every ache and pain, but I just had my DS 9 days ago and hes amazing. Please don't give up and if you need to talk to anyone send me a message.

I've also had this happen before. It's extremely devastating. I actually drank heavily for a long period of time because of the one I had back in 2011. I let mine happen naturally and I don't regret it. It gave me time to cope and to say goodbye in the right way but my grief was very bad. :( I'm sorry for your loss.

Im so sorry for your loss. I've had this happen twice myself. Both times, i had gone in for a scan, thinking everything was fine, just to be told it was not. Both times i had to do the surgical option because nothing happened naturally. Even though the baby had died, i never started bleeding or cramping. Some women do better with the surgical option because it's over quick and you can get on with healing and trying again if you want. I don't think i could handle sitting around waiting to start bleeding. I would want it over and done with. I've natural miscarriages too and my bleeding after the surgical was always less than after the natural miscarriage. I know it's hard to go through this, i really feel for you.

I had two 1st one was natural at 7w had a bit of cramping then very heavy bleeding for couple of hours then it was over 2nd was like yours seeing hb at 8w then at dating scan was told baby didnt make it second time I choose surgical option as couldnt face passing baby again dont know what to advise you so sorry for your loss xxx