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Unfortunately I can attest that you if he made plans with his friends first, then he will not want to change plans. I agree, breaking up with him because he didn't want to go to a function is ridiculous. A relationship is all about give and take and you can't force someone into doing something they don't want to do. I can't even begin how many functions I've gone to alone because my boyfriend didn't want to go. I go to family reunions and birthdays and other parties all alone because he just doesn't feel comfortable or he has other plans. Now if it were something like a holiday, I could understand that. But you're expecting a baby and that means he is too. He may need time away. It's a big adjustment for him as well as you.

If in other respects he's a good guy then it would be foolish to end the relationship. If I were you, I'd apologise lots to him, make it clear that you are committed to making the relationship work and that you won't break up with him over something so trivial again. No couple agrees on everything and it's important to be prepared to compromise A LOT. With the greatest respect, you guys haven't been together that long and there will be many bumps along the way. If you want it to work, you have to forgive and forget. Hope things get sorted quickly, good luck!

well we had made plans a month in advice. and about two months ago he was very adamant about not breaking plans with his friends, but it seemed like it just didnt matter when it came to me. it was more hes way or no way.

breaking up over him not wanting to go somewhere seems like a pretty petty reason. Is that al he did?