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Q: Should I stay, or should I go?

Last night my fiance and I got into a really horrible fight, that ended up getting physical on both our parts. The fight started because I wouldn't tell him in great detail about my day. (I am on bed rest, so my explanation consisted mostly of, I layed on the couch, I layed in bed, and I watched cartoons.) He got very angry and started accusing me of cheating on him, and all sorts of other horrible things. When I started getting very worked up, I told him to leave. That I couldn't take the stress. He then pounced on me, and not only hit me multiple times, face, abdomen, back, sides, but resorted to choking me when I fought back. He choked me into unconsciousness. When I came to, he was sitting on my belly, holding me down and screaming at me. This was the worse he has ever been in a fight, he has thrown me around before, but never made me fear for my life like this. I don't want my kids to have no dad, so I don't know, should I stay or should I go?

This question was asked Jan. 25, 2013 8:48pm
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by a member - Jan. 29, 2013 6:26am
I wonder what you decided to do? Please tell us?
I am in a very similar decision to you right now. It's heart breaking physically and mentally. I have left before and gone to a shelter etc only to return. Pains me so hard because although at times he treats me terribly, he is and would be an amazing father. I really hope you have friends and family to turn too during this difficult time. But if you're anything like me- it's hard telling me hence why one is in a forum like this.
We both know what is best and I truly hope you have the means to get out. x

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