Answered by kimberlyjanow2434 - Apr. 18, 2012 1:44am
your making the right descion. i have been in your shoes so i know where your comeing from. you can make it ;) just keep your head up and be strong for you and your baby. it may be a rough road but you can do and eventually your prince will come along. ;)
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Answered by Jess3720 - Mar. 20, 2012 7:24pm
His chances of changing are incredibly slim, sorry to say. Do what you think is best for you and your baby. I am in a somewhat similar situation right now. I am 33 weeks pregnant, and me and my fiance just split up over the weekend. He has chosen his own selfish desires over his family and decided to leave when given an ultimatum. He also has a criminal past that makes it hard for him to find work and hard for us to find a decent place to live. I must say I am so relieved that I don't have to worry about that holding me and the children back anymore. He really had no desire to better our lives anyhow. It's going to be hard, but I think it would be a lot harder having to work things out with him and keep living on the fringe of society, barely able to make it. Make sure you weigh the pros and cons of sticking by him. You are capable of doing this on your own, and your children will respect you for it if it's the path you choose. Best of luck to you and your bean!
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Answered by FirstTimeMommy1106 - Mar. 20, 2012 1:26pm
My prayer's and hopes are with you sweetie. This is a very tricky and tough situation, but like what was already said, nothing will change the fact that he is the father. You have every right to seperate yourself from him at the moment for the skae of your baby girl. You don't need any uneeded stree and pressure from this situation. My mother raised me an my sister alone, and it as hard for her, but we still got to see our dad and hold nothing against them for divorcing early on. It's a fact of life and it happens, but don't stay with him simply because he's your little girl's dad. You can still let him see is daughter, but you need to do what's healthy for you and your child. in the end, all that matters is the health and happiness of your baby, and if you're not happy, you're daughter will feel that. You will be an amazing mommy and that little girl is blessed to have you as her mother. Best of luck, hunny, stay strong, you're going to be great!
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Answered by a guest - Mar. 20, 2012 12:04pm
Thank u sooo much I think I needed 2 hear that...
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Answered by a member - Mar. 20, 2012 11:25am
This is such a sad story hun, my heart goes out to you. My opinion is this, You certainly do need to think of the unborn baby. Nothing will change the fact that he is the father. I sure hope the father makes effort to get to know his child and support both of you. I think you need to do what your heart tells you to. None of you deserve to be treated this way. As sad as it may be and it sounds like you really love him but I think it is time to think of yourself and move on. He will never be gone but atleast he will stop toying with your emotions and cheating on other women behind your back. He seems to be in a whole heap of trouble and he should have been straight forward with you about everything. It will be hard to be a single mum it will have its ups and downs but I think you are making the right move and it will be so worth it. good luck to you hun. I take my hat off to you. x
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