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Asked by kcrittenden

Q: My poor DF :(.

Are any of you ladies being super mean to your spouse? My poor DF, I feel like I hate him most of the day, I have no sex drive what so ever and I blame him for everything! He thankfully is very supportive. Is this normal ladies? Thanks :)

This question was asked Sep. 21, 2012 4:31pm
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Answered by kcrittenden - Sep. 22, 2012 6:10pm

Ahaha! I am literally LOLing! You ladies are awsome! Thanks your crazy stories are definatly making me feel better :)

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Answered by Mrs.Mom - Sep. 22, 2012 4:05pm

To the "member" who threw the food out the window...I laughed so hard when I read that!! LOL...absolutely hilarious....what a great "hormone tantrum" story!!

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Answered by a member - Sep. 22, 2012 2:30pm

I was super mean the first couple of months. One time i told him i was hungry so he took me to a burger place and went through the drive through cause i was so pissed off and i got the food and threw it out the window! He asked me why i did it and i just started crying and said I don't know. And the no sex drive lasted for the first four months.

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Answered by Bbennett80 - Sep. 22, 2012 1:20am

At first yes. I even pushed him! That day I was like wtf is wrong with me? Am I pregnant? Well, found out I was. That lasted till about last week (week 5). I was so irritable about everything!!! Now it's been replaced with being sleepy non stop. As for sex drive. I have none still. My husband is annoyed with that. If I force myself to just do it it turns out to be more intense (better; I've read increased blood flow to the area is why). Try to muster up the energy, you may be glad you did and it might take some stress off too!

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Answered by Mrs.Mom - Sep. 22, 2012 12:42am

I noticed I was SUPER moody during the first couple months of my pregnancy. I hardly recognized myself. I would freak and get upset at my DH over nothing. Luckily, I would realize it right away and I made a point to apologize and tell him I knew I was acting crazy but couldn't help it for some reason. I think it's important that DH knows you realize when you are behaving a bit out of control. My hubby is also supportive and would say he knew it "wasn't me" when I did those things, thankfully. But still important to make them realize how sorry you are and how much you love them :) It will pass...things get better :)

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Answered by ginabee - Sep. 21, 2012 8:33pm

I am totally with you on the annoyance. For me it was more in the beginning, but lately it's been coming back from time to time. I do however still love being touched and rubbed, I find it very soothing and relaxing. DH has pretty much limited "fun times" to once a week because he's scared of causing any trouble. Mainly because around July 4 I bled bright red for a couple days after BD and it terrified him. We are still super cuddly, maybe even more so now that we know we prob won't get a lot of time to ourselves for a while after little man is here in December. Hallelujah for understanding men!

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Answered by kcrittenden - Sep. 21, 2012 6:46pm

Ahaha. Awsome, thanks ladies! I thought I was the only crazy woman lol. Glad to see its 'normal' for pregnant woman. Our poor men though, the things we do for love lol

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Answered by dmartin65 - Sep. 21, 2012 6:40pm

I am on the zero sex drive train as well. Luckily my husband feels weird about having sex while I am pregnant as he does not want to "mess" with the baby. LOLOL

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Answered by a member - Sep. 21, 2012 6:15pm

im right there with you guys. zero sex drive. i dont really even want him to touch me to be honest. makes me wonder how we even made this baby LOL but unfortunetly it is super normal. Just hormones going wild.

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Answered by HoneyBee27 - Sep. 21, 2012 5:30pm

Im with on the no sex drive thing. I feel very guilty about it too. But i just dont want to be touched...at all. Poor guy.

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