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Asked by Nickylou203

Q: How to get my fiancé to lose the trashy friends .

I'm 15 weeks pregnant .My fiancé has always hung out with less than admirable people .It really bothers me now .He used to smoke pot and met most of his now friends then.I know they did otherr drugs an habe been to jail and he says they all quit .but I listen to them talk and I'm just not convinced .I don't want my kid around these people .and it scares me that they could get him put in jail if they were all hanging out and something happened.They all have other friends who are on parolee and probation that they bring around .They are his only friends .I don't want to take his friends away or seem sooo controlling .but i know how risky these people can be ..What do I do ?

This question was asked Aug. 23, 2013 10:32am
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by Ryssa23 - Sep. 1, 2013 10:38pm
Maybe sit down and tell him whats up, how your feeling and your worries. Sometimes men can be men and even that, does not work at all. Some men do change and realize to grow up when the baby is born. When a baby is born, its like a magical thing happens and you want the best for your child right? He might snap out of it and realize that his child comes first and not his friends. Usually when you have friends that don't have a baby, they kind of flake away anyways because you are so busy with your new wonderful life. Message me, and we can talk more personal if you'd like :)

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Answered by Ambience - Aug. 24, 2013 11:37am
Can you ask him to go see his friends and keep them out of your home where baby is? I've found rules are the only thing you can do in your environment to keep the home feeling safe, as it is upto your other half how he lives his life- but not what he inflicts on your environment. Message me if you ever want to chat i can completely understand what you are going through x

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Answered by bakerbabe - Aug. 23, 2013 5:08pm
If it was me.......I would suggest a move away from the area - way away from where you are now. Good luck, that is not a good situation to be in. Hope it works out ok for you

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Answered by Sparkle0406 - Aug. 23, 2013 11:55am
unless you want to dictate who your fiance is friends with you don't really have a choice, you could tell him your concerns and talk about it

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