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Q: Father to be is a negative nancy and it is driving me nuts !!!

.I just started to realize he complains ALOT .I will give you a today instance ---he came home from work and started talking about government issues and how he is going to end up not being able to pay bills and how our baby won't get proper health care .We went out for ice cream an on the way there he complained that I was " being to hard on his truck ." We got there and he ordered a blizzard ..only to realize that they had the one he liked more on a sign he didn't see .so the whole time he waited and ate his he complained .then he brought up naming our baby after his father .Who .We have already had this discussion btw he just had to bring it back up knowing where I Stand.Then we got home he was going to sleep and I had the tv on .je asked me to turn it down I did.He woke up complaining that he was so tired bc of me keeping the tv on .He never said anything last night .i told him I stop complaining .he freaked out slammed doors all the way out yelling .He drives me insane .

This question was asked Oct. 3, 2013 9:52am
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Answered by Babyboy203 - Oct. 4, 2013 6:49pm

Thanks ladies .you make me feel somewhat normal :)

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Answered by Lou_85 - Oct. 4, 2013 9:55am

i have been exact same so sick and at start had four scans as cramping badly. I lost over a stone being sick, now I find everything irritates me. If someone is yapping about stupid shit I just have to say the more you go on about it the more it's going to annoy you so safer shutting up lol as for my partner if he got on like that all the time I would be telling him to jog on out of my site, but at min my response is normally whatever, and grow a set and get over it. Lol

It's ok to vent sometimes. I find lately all I'm doing is complaining about work as my boss is givin me grief and now as I'm going off on maternity leave they are changing my job and it may not be here by December let alone by time I come back! so I'm pretty stressed as I don't know where il b working after November let alone when I come back

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Answered by Debs1983 - Oct. 4, 2013 8:12am

If my partner acted like that he would get a kick in the nuts, don't let him stress you just play him at his game there's nothing worse than feeling as crappy as you do n then getting treated like that x

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Answered by Babyboy203 - Oct. 3, 2013 9:14pm

Yes .because before I would have cared about his whiney shit .but I have thrown up every day since day one still can't gain weight constantly have migraines from it and just feel like cramp alot .he is always complaining because I am not working right now .There is no way in hell I could .I am on the highest dose of mess they can give .and wants to bitch about how he wanted a different ice cream like a 2 year old .I am already going to be raising one kid .I don't need another ! Then he plays the silet treatment five year old games slamming doors and saying things under his breath and its just really annoying .Like shut up and go away ! Be a man!haha vent over

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Answered by Lou_85 - Oct. 3, 2013 1:38pm

I agree totally, men are just dicks sometimes! Sure when a man gets the flu he thinks he's dying, whereas we can't moan and have to get on with everything. My partner complains about everything too I've noticed in past couple weeks, we are buying a bigger house and he is getting this mortgage and he is giving off about the text alerts the bank send to update on the progress! Like wtf! That's a good thing they are keeping him up to date. I had to tell him to grow a set last night everyone does it and when I bought first house he wouldn't listen to me not that I did moan half as much.

are you finding that you are getting irritated a lot more easy while pregnant? I defo am, my patience level is now non existent lol

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Answered by redrouge - Oct. 3, 2013 12:41pm

lol he sounds like my husband.im 32 weeks preg with twins.im massive have spd sick every morning and 2 other kids to run around after ect.. but i dont wine just get on with it.he has a peptic ulcer slipped disc in his back vertigo and suffers migrine bla bla bla..im so sick of listening to him too.i just switch off and then he has the check to tell me that he cant wait for me not to be preg cause he s sick of looking at me waddlimg around the place lol.men are just dick s sometimes.bitch over

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