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Q: got into a big fight, help! I'm out of state.

So, I'm 34 weeks pregnant. My cousin wife showed up to my house, uninvited. I opened the door and she said she wanted to "talk" and i said okay. We started talking and one thing led to another. She started saying things that she heard I said (which isn't true) and I told her this is a lot of he said she said. She's 27 acting really immature and I told her this all unnecessary. We started arguing cause I called her immature and she started swearing on my unborn child (I put it on your baby type deal) and I told her to stop and she did it again with a smirk on her face and again so I got really upset and I punched her in the face (I shouldn't have, but I reacted badly to that) so we started fighting but I kept pushing her away from my stomach and she kept hitting me and I kept trying to stop it and my little brother in law was screaming at her he's 8 and he pushed her away from me and I went to my room and she said she forgot i was preggo and kept saying sorry. should i get see

This question was asked Nov. 22, 2013 1:59am
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Answered by kshives1027 - Nov. 22, 2013 8:48pm
I would go to the doctor and just get checked out, like Luckymommyto5 said, especially if you were hit in the stomach at any time. There is protection for the baby but not as much as when they are smaller. I got into an screaming match with my sister a couple of weeks ago after months of dealing with her "issues." There was no hitting involved, but I don't know how people could "forget" you were pregnant, as at 34 weeks, it is obvious that you are. Hormones are going crazy right now and it is much easier to snap. Just try to keep your cool, keep your blood pressure down and keep calm. That's what I needed to do after our fight. I would make sure that she knows she is not allowed to come to your house or anywhere near you and again, get a quick check or at least call your doctor. If you wanna chat about anything privately, please don't hesitate to message me.

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Answered by Luckymommyto5 - Nov. 22, 2013 2:13am
If she was punching and hitting you in your stomach then you should go in right away to make sure the baby is ok. Not sure if you can press charges since you hit first unless you felt very threatened then you'd have a case against her but if it were out of anger you could be the one getting charges. But for sure go in and get checked.

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