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My boyfriend made the mistake if telling my doctor about my hitting him square in the nuts in my sleep, omg did that spread around his office fast! They thought it was extremely funny. I kinda did too.

my husband is very loving and yet very good looking thats why im being paranoid haysss:( im having lots of dreams too that he is having an affair . lols haha

I've had a lot of dreams that my boyfriend is and a couple times while I'm sleeping I've actually hit him. I feel horrible but also think it's funny I have such great aim if you know what I mean. I'm highly insecure but my boyfriend is understanding of it and tries to make me feel loved and everything but during a certain point in pregnancy it's hard to accept it. My boyfriend thinks I'm crazy jealous, which I am but only because I'm very unhappy with my weight and the way I look.

thank ui for ur answers ladies, i think hes not cheating im jst being paranoid and insecure because i look so fat and ugly , thank u again for ur advices :*:*:*

Do you have anything to prove he's cheating or are you just being extremely paranoid?

You have a feeling? You also have a lot of hormones and emotions being dumped on you right now. I think you need to communicate with him and examine why you feel that way before you assume that it's true and work yourself up into a depression. If he's not meeting your needs emotionally or with attention you need to tell him instead of deciding it must be because he's seeing someone else. He's becoming a father and he may not be coping with it the way you expect him to and that may cause him to withdraw or pull away as he works through his own emotions.

The best revenge u can ever have on a cheating man, is to move on and be happy. There's no need to go back n forth trying to hurt each other...it only hurts the kid(s), theyre the little eyes watching this. If u truly believe he's cheating and this isn't just a paranoid thought from feeling insecure about ur body or whatever, then u need to either pack up and leave, or tell him to leave. No yelling, no name calling, no crying and asking why...just leave!!
U can cry and yell all u want when ur alone, but dont give him that satisfaction. Be the stronger person and face this head on. If he is cheating, then he's a coward...he shouldve left u if he wasnt happy, sneaking around is cowardly and u dont need a coward, u need a man!
Best of luck in whatever decision u make! =))

The best thing you can do is talk to him, it could be that it is all in your head. I have very regular dreams that my partner is cheating on me with my friends but obviously it's in my head and I've spoken to him about it so when I'm feeling insecure he's there to help me feel better and I trust him completely so I know he wouldn't do that to me.

Revenge? Are u actually serious? if he's cheating on you why would you stay with him, esp as your carrying his baby!!

Why do u even think he's cheating on you in the first place? You would need to be 100% certain and not thinking what can I do to hurt him.....imagine you done something awful and he hasn't done anything wrong?!?!