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Well she got pregnant a few weeks after I did, and towards the end of the first trimester, she lost her baby. I've never had a miscarriage that late in pregnancy before, but have had multiple early losses in the past (in fact, lost one just 5 months before falling pregnant with this baby....) so I know it's devastating at any stage.
However, she's always commenting on my photos and stuff about how she would be so many weeks along today if she hadn't lost her baby, and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and I'm not sure how to go about dealing with this? She has two wonderful children already and I went through three losses before this one... I'm trying to be understanding but I don't feel like she's being fair to me either.
Anyone have a similar situation or any advice?
This question was asked Oct. 9, 2014 7:02pm
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy
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Q: Awkward interactions and how to proceed???
So there's this lady I went to school with that I'm friends with on my Facebook.. we were never really that close but just like to keep in touch once in a while and see how things are going.Well she got pregnant a few weeks after I did, and towards the end of the first trimester, she lost her baby. I've never had a miscarriage that late in pregnancy before, but have had multiple early losses in the past (in fact, lost one just 5 months before falling pregnant with this baby....) so I know it's devastating at any stage.
However, she's always commenting on my photos and stuff about how she would be so many weeks along today if she hadn't lost her baby, and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and I'm not sure how to go about dealing with this? She has two wonderful children already and I went through three losses before this one... I'm trying to be understanding but I don't feel like she's being fair to me either.
Anyone have a similar situation or any advice?
This question was asked Oct. 9, 2014 7:02pm
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy
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