Questions & Answers

Carenda, my husband loves and respects me very much. And we have a great sex life, so it not that he has to go some where else for stimulation. I don't know why you would think because some men watch porn that is is disrespectful to their wives. Its not like going to pick up a damn hooker or something.... Its just porn, who cares?!

First off, Carenda my dear, big hugs to you! Whether he watches porn or not, you do realize that he masturbates, don't you?? I mean unless you are having sex with him 2-3 times a day he is going to tap one off every once in a while and you have to be a little foolish to think otherwise. And if he tells you he only thinks of you when he does, then be afraid because you have a BIG liar on your hands. My husband has friends who tell their wives that they don't masturbate to porn and they do and he pities the fact that they have crazy insecure wives. So now that we know that your hubby masturbates to other women (accept it) what difference does it make if they are in porn? In fact, wouldn't you prefer he masturbate to women that he doesn't know or ever talk to? Just a thought. Anyway, Nicole, do not worry, as long as it's not a daily occurrence AND he asks you for sex first (if you turn him down you have to expect that his urge won't go away) then I think your fine:)

i think all men watch porn too and if they say they dont they are probably lying...Its in there nature

thats true thank you ladies!

All men watches porn whether behind ur back or openly .. I don't think it's a big deal.. It's nothing compared to real sex.. They just do it for fun only.. He's not comparing u to them.. I think it's a normal thing.. However, the lying part is not nice.. My husband tells me when he watches porn.. Or if he watched porn.. I was annoyed at the beginning of our relationship that he watches them but u really can't stop them so I'd rather he tells me than watch them behind my back.. And I can tell he likes the real thing more because he wouldn't "want" me if porn was enough..

all guys do not watch porn....my hubby does not like porn and never has. He tried watching it once when he was younger and just hated it, thinks it is disrespectful for men to even watch that stuff when they are in a relationship so I do not know what "ALL" these guys you are talking about JakieO....some men are actually respectful of their woman and don't need outside stimulation to get it up in the bedroom.

All guys watch porn and its not a horrible thing. Of course it is if he is watching porn instead of being with you, but if that isn't a problem then you have nothing to worry about. Not really a big deal, its just a guy thing.

I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but most guys watch porn. It shouldn't affect the way you feel unless he's completely checked out and basically addicted to the stuff. Obviously he finds you attractive or he wouldn't be with you in the first place. I've known guys who watch things because they are curious about a certain act or like watching it happen, but would never in a million years want or ask their partner to do anything like that. Lying is never ok, and that should definitely be something you guys talk about but the porn shouldn't be a big deal.