Questions & Answers

It is okay sweetheart. In-laws can be alot of pressure sometimes. You just have to hold on for a little time. Just don't let it affect you. Stay focused and do your thing. You'll conceive soon and prove them that wrong. And I am sure that after the baby arrives, they're going to be fine. I am sure it's also important to them. Don't get stressed over it. Take lots of care. Good Luck.

Hey. Don't be sad this happens sometimes. The same happened to me when I was conceiving but after that, I had a miscarriage. I had 3 miscarriages in a row. After that, till now I am suffering from uterine polyps. There was no way left except surrogacy. I am not able to carry a child inside me so that's why I had chosen surrogacy. Surrogacy was safe and I have heard many success stories of couples who went for surrogacy. My in-laws were being so losers, They said it's not the right way to have babies and how will you take someone else baby. Let me tell you now I have a daughter and genetically she belongs to me. I went to Ukraine for surrogacy. It is affordable there and also they provide healthy surrogates. But she doesn't understand this. My husband supported me a lot. Now I have a complete family.

It is completely okay dear. She is acting like a typical mother in law. She has a very conservative mind. I don't know why people do not support their children at such times. When you and your DH needed her support, she did not support you both. It is better not to think about her. I think when this baby will come into the world, she'll start developing good feelings towards him/her. Afterall, who can stay away and not love their own grandchildren? So, don't worry. Everything will be okay!

Sorry to hear about your condition.
But now its the fate that we are this way.
I'm also infertile dear. I also can't have a baby naturally.
Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby of our own.
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb.
Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children.
From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
I don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
He agreed to my proposal so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them.
I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications.
From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby.

You are trying your best, aren't you? That should be enough. Some people are just very hard to impress. I don't see the point of her for giving you such a hard time. I'd suggest you give your best to her and leave rest. She'll get better with time I'm sure. Good luck.

Hey there Kayla.I hope you are doing great this time around. Life has a way turning upside down and likewise for people.I do not know whether it is due to diet or any other reason.The number of pregnancy-ending up in MC are increasing day by day.Millions of women are having MC and there is nothing to be ashamed of.One thing I would say is that mental stress plays a huge rule in this.So do not worry about what the future holds and keep calm.Stay away from hot tubs and let nature take its course.Please do not stress about your inlaws.They are the worst people ever giving mental stress for no reason at all.Enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can you are the only person that matters right now.Start a proper diet and do yoga for about half an hour a day.This will really help release the tension in your abdomen and you will feel better.Also, talk to your husband about this more.I am sure he will understand it.Take care of yourself love and send some baby dust my way as well.

hey, Kayla first of all congratulations on the big news.Really you are one of the luckiest people alive i must say.These things like MCs are all a part of life.These come naturally.Nobody has any hand in doing so to you.So you must stay calm.And enjoy the new arrival.I hope that the new arrival will fill your heart with such joys that your Mother in laws words won't bother you.People around you are heartless.They cannot imagine the pain you have had after your MC.You must not pay heed.If he were actually sincere to you she must have been happy no matter.So do not care.You are being gifted with the biggest gifts.Learn from your husband f he is happy you should be too.So stay happy and calm.Best of luck

I totally understand where you are coming from but I also feel like people are running out of patience and understanding for one another, I m sorry for your loss but you have to understand that people are not generally evil everyone is entitled to there own views and you have to respect them. I see a lot of trends on these forums where all people do is a bash on their in-laws because they are not there to defend themselves, and people can be so dumb all they do is fuel their fires which are extremely counterproductive from both sides. When was the last time you had a chat with her ? it is so easy to call people out as assholes but how many times have you sincerely tried to workout ur problems instead of calling them bad words. I'm sorry if I sound a little harsh but I've gone through MC as well and have had similar problems but I choose to work them out with everyone and have received nothing but comfort from them. I hope you see where I am coming from. Talk to them.

I have to comment on this because this is the same exact stuff i am going through with my MIL. She treats me like i am a girlfriend and not her sons wife. When we told her we were pregnant, she texted me and told me that me being pregnant was disgusting and that i make her sick. We have never really got along. My DH doesn't really stick up for me either when his parents talk crap about me. It's just got to the point where i dont want anything to do with them. Everyone on my side of the family are being very supportive and encouraging. I guess thats all that matters.

Let your partner handle them, not you. There his parents. Talk to him about your feelings and have him approach them. It's his baby too.